I didn’t really give it much thought before
Probably because I was always in a relationship
I was too preoccupied with the complexities of loving
Believe you me - complicated love is never easy
But for me, the intricacies of loving are worth it
Cliche as it may sound – loving completes me
Then all of sudden, I am in unfamiliar grounds
No more fights. No more petty jealousies.
And I can date again!
Single-blessedness may have its benefits
But it is not working out for me
How I tried but boy-oh-boy, cold nights are just unbearable
So my journey begins
My quest for my one true love
Love is trial and error
Trial #1 occurred and good riddance it failed
Trial #2 is ongoing but it’s not looking good
I’m just one sentimental freak
And as I write this blog post
Tears are running down my cheeks
I am sharing this with you, my faithful readers
Because by now, you have become a part of my life too
Lord, do let me love….AGAIN!
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General Santos Time
July 2nd, 2010 at 11:13 AM
oh my, oh my… plus one girl-woman crossing-fingers now. whew! love, let it be. so be it!
sakura´s newest [type] post ..ok ka lang mama
July 2nd, 2010 at 11:24 AM
Ormz, inom muna ako bonamine before joining you on this rollercoaster ride.
gilbertyaptan´s newest [type] post ..Ganda Ever So Much- – Orman Manansalas Lethal Weapon
July 2nd, 2010 at 11:49 AM
haha nashock si sir gilbert!well.thats life kung saan ka happy dun ka.love is lovelier the second time around…
lito´s newest [type] post ..vice ganda live in gensan
July 2nd, 2010 at 11:59 AM
ano kayang comment ni kuya avel nito hehe…
lito´s newest [type] post ..vice ganda live in gensan
July 2nd, 2010 at 12:28 PM
O M…
i must watch this muli movie though. i miss cogie.
attymagman´s newest [type] post ..an open letter to Ganda Ever So Much
July 2nd, 2010 at 2:44 PM
Haaay…
July 2nd, 2010 at 3:09 PM
Eh ano pa nga ba?
LOVE na ged…
Good Luck Kuya ORMAN!
P.S. magkapatid ng kau ni Kuya Avel… = )
July 2nd, 2010 at 3:22 PM
Goodluck Sis!
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July 2nd, 2010 at 4:04 PM
Congrats Kuya!
We know HAPPY ever so much ka ngayon!
Go na!
July 2nd, 2010 at 4:05 PM
Oi! Nagkabalikan pala!
July 2nd, 2010 at 4:07 PM
Make sure you won’t show me bruises for it.
Because I wouldn’t know how to react this time.
Actually, you’re better when you are single because your vision is broader and family and friends are always within your peripheral.
But then, it must be the masochist in all of us that keep us going back to our tormentors.
Wherever this 55th reconciliation takes you, I will still be here on the guard in case you cry out for HELP again.
The least I can I do is to dig down into the deepest recesses of my heart and pray for you to be happy and COMPLETE once more.
Because that’s what big brothers do and I’m doing it for you.
July 2nd, 2010 at 4:18 PM
love, lots of love, full of love…be happy lagi
liezl´s newest [type] post ..Friendship
July 2nd, 2010 at 4:22 PM
It is the right thing to do, ONLY if there are boundries and you can start from the beginning, go slow, and let the true colours show.
IF that person cant move at a slow pace so you can observe whatever he/she does to cause you pain, then no, it would not be a good idea to trust him/her again.
Most people cant do the work and change…unless they have to ‘work’ for and ‘prove’ thier change.
Letting go has been a problem, common among all ages, from all walks of life, may it be letting go of a love, a job, a thing or whatever that you are so attached to. Sometimes people think that it can be done with one night’s sleep, and immediately the feeling of attachment will be gone and eventually you will let go. No matter who we are in life, or what position we hold, it will come to a point that we will have to learn to let go, let go of something important to us.
There is no device or a quick-fix method to make this feeling go away instantly, to drive away months or years of attachment. Some people even take a lot of time to let something go and move on with their lives. Worst some fail to let go and never move on with their life.
The hardest thing to let go is someone you have loved so much, someone you have shared much of your life and you always thought he or she would be forever there. Once you build this attachment, it is like a habit to you, how your day will be is dependent on how your relationship is going to be with that other person for that day. It is an investment to put your heart completely to another person that when it fails, we go into emptiness.
July 2nd, 2010 at 6:03 PM
Sana pwede rin mag-like ng comments dito as in Facebook. I wish one of my five older brothers could reassure me like Sir Avel did you.
Good luck, Sir Orman!
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July 2nd, 2010 at 6:18 PM
*isang malaking teddy bear hug*
love, love, love… :* <3
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July 2nd, 2010 at 6:18 PM
hmmmmmm.. i guess i feel for you tito.. same thing happened to me.. trying one more time to fix the errors that have occured..it’s a long process but we’re doing it step by step… nice blog tito.. mwah♥
July 2nd, 2010 at 7:25 PM
@Kuya Avel:
Aynaw!
karapat – dapat kang ICLAP! CLAP! Kuya Avel…
Swerte ni Kuya ORMAN for having you as a brother!
July 2nd, 2010 at 10:28 PM
malaman na malaman ang mga makabagbag-damdaming words of wisdom ni Kuya A!!!
Sir, sabi ni Kuya A, mag-comment daw ako sa post mo… i dunno what to say… CONG-GRAT-TULATIONS!!!
yun lang… bow…
July 2nd, 2010 at 10:44 PM
chuvachuhu!! happy hearts sayo Orman!<3<3<3
July 2nd, 2010 at 11:21 PM
Ano ka ba Jian Hua Nie (variety ka ba ng mangga???), magcomment ka na lang dito, copy and paste pa ged. Where’s your originality??? Sa susunod, bawal ang pirated comment ha??? Mag-isip ka naman for yourself. Yun lang! Bow! Ooops! Miyaw diay! Ajejejeje
Eto ang url ng kinopyahang site ni Hua Nie:
http://www.squidoo.com/letting-go-of-someone-you-love
July 3rd, 2010 at 6:30 AM
Oh, may balikan! Hopefully this will be an okey deal again. I’m crossing my fingers for you!
sheng´s newest [type] post ..The Sweet Tooth Attack
July 3rd, 2010 at 7:11 AM
i hope people can be less critical and be more accepting. i invite you, my faithful readers, to join me in my roller-coaster i call life…
orman´s newest [type] post ..Love Is Trial And Error
July 3rd, 2010 at 8:12 AM
basta I always believe, that when there is love, there is pain. congrats! love is certainly lovelier the second time around!
July 3rd, 2010 at 7:16 PM
@Airwin — we committed to work hard the second time around… thanks!
July 3rd, 2010 at 7:17 PM
@sheng — mahirap pero gagawin ko talagang lahat para maayos kami this time…
July 7th, 2010 at 4:42 PM
wala akong ma- say kaya di kaagad nag-react hehehe. . . touching naman si kuya Avel – iyak to death din ako partrner tulo pa jud sip-on hehehe
July 7th, 2010 at 5:01 PM
@toti — hayyyzzz toti dami kong ikikwento… hahay talaga!
July 7th, 2010 at 7:22 PM
Mala MMK love story mo Kuya!
November 11th, 2010 at 8:03 AM
funny that i’m reading this again after breaking up (AGAIN!) with you-know-who! this time, being SINGLE is more bearable and the lonely cold nights are best solved by “facebooking!”
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November 11th, 2010 at 8:11 AM
this time around, try Al and Errol. heheh
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November 11th, 2010 at 9:14 AM
Love. Get hurt. Love again.
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